NewlySingle
Age 19 - “I just caught my boyfriend cheating on me with my younger sister. I walked into her room and I saw him on top of her. I was devasted at seeing what was in front of my eyes. I slapped him and left. That night i broke up with him. Why did he cheat? Was it because she was younger than me? Was he getting bored of me? Was I not better than her? Now I just feel horrible about myself”
TLD - What goes through a mind of a man when hes about to cheat is usually a lot different from what women think. Usually and I’m not speaking for all men, is that he never planned to cheat. He probably didn’t ever see himself as a man that would do such a thing. Men cheat for the rush, its the adrenaline rush that they feed off of. It something new to them. He took the action and he knew the consequences. You did right in dumping his sorry a**.the other obstacle is working things out with your sister. You can decide to either try to mend it with your sister or not. But don’t feel bad for yourself, you did nothing wrong in this situation. Gather what you learned and keep going on with life. Find yourself a man who will treat you right.
