Dave
Age 21 - “I’ve been with my girlfriend for three years now, and she treats my like crap, I’m starting to become very upset with her. All my friends see it, and they tell me to ditch her everyday. The only problem is that I love her too much to leave her. What should I do? Is there anyway I can change her? She says she will, but its the same”
TLD “First you have to understand: people dont change over night and people don’t change unless they have something that their willing to change for. Present her with something that is worth changing for. For this situation, if you feel you can love her the way she is, all the power to you, but it seems like you are being thinned down pretty far and have had enough. If shes not willing to change for you at the risk of losing you, is she still worth being with? You’re still pretty young and have a lot of life to live. Take that into consideration and good luck!”
